You’ve booked the venue, picked the dress, and chosen the menu. You are planning the perfect wedding day. But have you spent as much time planning for the marriage as you have for the wedding?
With divorce rates lingering between 30–50%, proactive couples are looking for ways to build a foundation that lasts. One of the most effective tools available—taken by over a million couples—is the SYMBIS Assessment (Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts) by Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott.
Here is why investing in the SYMBIS assessment before you say “I do” is one of the best decisions you can make.
What is the SYMBIS Assessment?
Created by renowned marriage experts Les and Leslie Parrott, SYMBIS is a sophisticated, research-based online assessment designed specifically for engaged couples (or those thinking about it).
It’s not just a quiz; it’s a comprehensive look at your relationship, analyzing everything from personality traits and communication styles to financial habits and conflict resolution.
The Key Benefits of Taking SYMBIS Before Marriage
1. It Uncovers Your “Blind Spots”
When you’re in love, it’s easy to look at your partner through rose-colored glasses, ignoring potential issues. SYMBIS helps you take those blinders off—gently and effectively. It highlights potential “hot spots” (areas of future conflict) so you can discuss them now, rather than years later.
2. It Provides a Personalized Roadmap
SYMBIS gives you a personalized, 15+ page report that acts as a “roadmap” to your partner’s psyche and your relationship dynamics. It doesn’t just show where you are, but how your combined personalities can be leveraged for maximum success.
3. It Enhances Communication and Empathy
By understanding how your partner thinks, feels, and communicates, you naturally develop greater patience and empathy. SYMBIS helps you move from emotional reactions to logical, understanding conversations.
4. It Tackles the Tough Subjects
SYMBIS helps you navigate complex topics, including:
- Money Methods: Uncovering how you both view, save, and spend money.
- Conflict Resolution: Identifying your “fight types” and teaching you how to fight fair.
- Expectations & Roles: Aligning your expectations about household duties, career, and family.
- Intimacy: Discussing sexual intimacy and emotional connection.
5. It Sets a Firm Foundation (And Lowers Divorce Risk)
Think of your marriage as a house. If you don’t build a strong foundation, the house won’t last. Studies show that premarital preparation like SYMBIS can reduce the risk of divorce by up to 31%.
”Is It Too Late If We’ve Been Together A Long Time?”
No. Many couples who take SYMBIS have been dating for years or are already living together. The feedback is consistent: they almost always learn something new and valuable about their partner.
Final Thoughts: A Small Investment for a Lifetime
The SYMBIS assessment takes only about 30–45 minutes to complete online but provides deep, life-changing insights. Compared to the cost of a wedding, it is a small, proactive investment in a lifetime of happiness.